As you do not know the path of the wind, or how the body is formed in a mother's womb, so you cannot understand the work of God, the Maker of all things. (Ecclesiates 11:5)
I will be perfectly honest. There are times, right now being one of them, that I really don't see what God might be up to in the lives of those around me. I see people who love God, give their lives to Him in service and dedication and yet all they seem to have to suffer through difficult times, painful problems, silly mistakes and uncertain futures. If I were God I think that I might work on the merit system: help out and bless the ones who love me and serve me and punish and step on those who don't. (I know how stupid that sounds, and I am very glad that the Father is not like that.) I do, however trust Him enough to know that He is indeed up to something and that He rushes to strongly uphold those whose hearts are completely His. But I guess that is where I am. I just don't know what He's up to. I wish I could zoom out and see more of the map, but I just can't. I wish I knew where that next job was going to come from, how the fight is going to turn out, when that child will come, but I just don't.
.....here's me.....trying to be o.k. with not knowing. Trusting...but not knowing.
Monday, May 15, 2006
Mother's Day
Theodore Roosevelt said, “When all is said, it is the mother, and the mother only, who is a better citizen than the soldier who fights for his country. The successful mother, the mother who does her part in rearing and training aright the boys and girls, who are to be the men and women of the next generation, is of greater use to the community, and occupies, if she only would realize it, a more honorable as well as more important position than any man in it. The mother is the one supreme asset of the national life. She is more important, by far, than the successful statesman, or businessman, or artist, or scientist.”
I owe so much to my mother. The seeds that she planted in my life are still blooming today. She cast over me an influence which has lasted all my life. The good effects of her training in my early life have stayed with me, and if I am honest play a part in most decisions that I make. Thomas Edison said it like this, "I was a careless boy, and with a mother of different mental caliber, I should have turned out badly. But her firmness, her sweetness, her goodness, were potent powers to keep me in the right path...My mother was the making of me." I agree with Edison. Special Honor to my mother, she has done and is doing a great job at rearing her boys.
In a turn of events that I had absolutely no control over, God completely and overwhelmingly blessed me by sending me a wife and a friend, who is a truly great mother. There is no one (understanding I might be a little biased) who takes their role as mother as serious as Jen does. I can't begin to describe the hours of thoughts, prayers and conversations that she logs while being our children's best advocate. She really has their best interests at heart at all times. The way she loves her kids is really a thing of beauty. I married a mother (a hot one at that!) and my life and the lives of my children are enriched all because of her. Special honor to her, she is smack in the middle of her job as a mother, and by all accounts she seems to enjoy it.
Other mothers in my life, especially my mother-in-law, grandmothers, and aunts all occupy very important and influential roles in my life. I am thankful for all of them.
I owe so much to my mother. The seeds that she planted in my life are still blooming today. She cast over me an influence which has lasted all my life. The good effects of her training in my early life have stayed with me, and if I am honest play a part in most decisions that I make. Thomas Edison said it like this, "I was a careless boy, and with a mother of different mental caliber, I should have turned out badly. But her firmness, her sweetness, her goodness, were potent powers to keep me in the right path...My mother was the making of me." I agree with Edison. Special Honor to my mother, she has done and is doing a great job at rearing her boys.
In a turn of events that I had absolutely no control over, God completely and overwhelmingly blessed me by sending me a wife and a friend, who is a truly great mother. There is no one (understanding I might be a little biased) who takes their role as mother as serious as Jen does. I can't begin to describe the hours of thoughts, prayers and conversations that she logs while being our children's best advocate. She really has their best interests at heart at all times. The way she loves her kids is really a thing of beauty. I married a mother (a hot one at that!) and my life and the lives of my children are enriched all because of her. Special honor to her, she is smack in the middle of her job as a mother, and by all accounts she seems to enjoy it.
Other mothers in my life, especially my mother-in-law, grandmothers, and aunts all occupy very important and influential roles in my life. I am thankful for all of them.
Wednesday, May 03, 2006
New Tattoo
Yes, this is ink, and yes, this is my arm. Shocking I am sure, but after wanted to get a tattoo for some time that had attached meaning to the wonderful woman that God has gifted into my life, I have finally done it. This is a celtic lover's knot.
Notice how there are two separate strands that are joined together in an inseparable knot. Obviously, to me this represents Jennifer and I. The Green symbolizes the "aliveness" and the life that our union has brought, the circle of red that the knot is completely inside represents the love (romance and passion) that surrounds our marriage. I am incredibly blessed and in love. I also intend to stay tangled up with my wife for the rest our lives.
My good friend Glen, went through with his at the same time and it was a good first experience. We both felt like we should somehow feel much 'badder' now, but for some reason nothing has really changed. Please comment and click on the pic to see more photos.
Notice how there are two separate strands that are joined together in an inseparable knot. Obviously, to me this represents Jennifer and I. The Green symbolizes the "aliveness" and the life that our union has brought, the circle of red that the knot is completely inside represents the love (romance and passion) that surrounds our marriage. I am incredibly blessed and in love. I also intend to stay tangled up with my wife for the rest our lives.
My good friend Glen, went through with his at the same time and it was a good first experience. We both felt like we should somehow feel much 'badder' now, but for some reason nothing has really changed. Please comment and click on the pic to see more photos.
Monday, April 24, 2006
McPherson Originals
These are a pair of Abstracts that I did for our living area. They are 30"x40" Acrylic on Canvas and in a very simple geometric style. (Further proving the fact that just about anybody can mimic anything!)
Friends around the Table
We have begun to realize that the best things that happen in community seem to happen, at least for us, around the dinner table.
We have wanted to get this table and chairs for a few years and now we finally are eating around it. At the recent Pastor's Retreat here on Iron Mountain, we had groups of friends around it each night. The conversations and friendships that they cultivate were just exactly what we had in mind.
For all friends and family. Please come by and sit at the table with us. We have stories to tell, and can't wait to hear yours.
We have wanted to get this table and chairs for a few years and now we finally are eating around it. At the recent Pastor's Retreat here on Iron Mountain, we had groups of friends around it each night. The conversations and friendships that they cultivate were just exactly what we had in mind.
For all friends and family. Please come by and sit at the table with us. We have stories to tell, and can't wait to hear yours.
Wow the children are growing
For those friends that we don't get a chance to see often enough (Daniel and Sharon; Michael and Misti; Jeremy and Michelle especially) I have posted a few pics on the flickr site of the children so that you can see how much they are growing and changing. We are enjoying each day of their lives, yet we are also very taken back by how fast those days are flying.
They are the most alive 4 children I believe you will find anywhere. They absolutely love life and are living it (as our friends in South Africa say) "Hoy Milles". Which really means "with corn" but I think can also mean with much gusto or full tilt. (At least that is what I am going to say it means.)
They are the most alive 4 children I believe you will find anywhere. They absolutely love life and are living it (as our friends in South Africa say) "Hoy Milles". Which really means "with corn" but I think can also mean with much gusto or full tilt. (At least that is what I am going to say it means.)
Sunday, April 02, 2006
Zoo Atlanta
Recently, while in Atlanta, we had the privilege to be able to go to the Zoo with my cousin Mendi and her children. 20+ years ago, we had been to Grant Park Zoo and had a blast. There are still some pictures floating around from that day. This time it was very fun too. My mom also joined us. We really had a great time. Check out this highlight video from the day at Zoo Atlanta: The Cousins Hit Zoo Atlanta.
It is simply amazing how close these 7 can be to each other even though we live so far apart. But then again, we were pretty close ourselves growing up...Special thanks to my couz for making these friendships work.
It is simply amazing how close these 7 can be to each other even though we live so far apart. But then again, we were pretty close ourselves growing up...Special thanks to my couz for making these friendships work.
Monday, March 06, 2006
McPhersons Eating at Buca Di Beppo
Our Family just finished a special night at Buca Di Beppo in Jacksonville Florida. being that we live in Mena, Arkansas, we don't have a Buca in our home town, so it is a pretty special privilege to get to visit one. Jen and I had been to Buca in Nashville prior to tonight, but the kids had never been. We had called ahead and reserved the table in the Kitchen, just perfect for our family. You actually sit in the kitchen and watch the wait staff and chefs work. Our server was great and the chefs were fantastic. They chatted with the whole family through the meal. They even cooked a couple of their favorites for us and gave it to us (added to the obscene amount of food we had already ordered.) To put it short we had a wonderful time and made a great memory. Abby's favorite food in the world is cheesecake; You should have seen her eyes when the huge piece arrived at the table. It was a great memory...one of many.
Florida State Rally in Keystone Heights
This is the third year that we have been priviledged to be in attendance at the Florida CMA State Rally, held at the Salvation Army Campground in Keystone Heights Florida. We always enjoy the facilities and it is one of the kids favorite places to visit. There are always alot of other children to hang with and plenty of things to do. Last year, my cousin Jeremy Henderson, presently in Jacksonville, FL. came to minister to the students, and this year he came back to hang with us. We really had a great time. The kids literally talked his ears off, and I remembered just how much I missed him. The picture is taken outside during the bike games of which we were only spectators. Jeremy wanted to take my bike out for a spin and he was pretty excited about it (enough to forget something important). took my bike for a spin and I think he was really enjoying it until his helmet flew off. (I don't think he was really going that fast.) Anyways, we really had a good time together.
Georgia Aquarium
After a CMA event near Warner Robins Georgia, we took a special day with the family and mom and dad at the Georgia Aquarium. I was absolutely blown away with the scale of this attraction. If you get a chance to go, you should. It really was more than I expected. We all had a great time and the kids especially were wide eyed. I have captured some of the pictures that the boys took on my photo stream (Some of them are pretty unbelievable).
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